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| ******If you are up to date on the homosexuality blogs between Janie and I you can skip the bold portion.*******For those of you that have been hiding under a rock for the past week or so there was a heated debate going on about homosexuality.I disagreed with some things Janie had been saying, I did a blog, no hate, no anger, I just disagreed.Janie does another blog, this goes back and forth until Janie does a blog and I decide that this back and forth stuff just needs to stop.Since Janie tends to be a drive by commenter I decided to go and post on her blog.Clarify my position and see where we could go.Things were going well, we still disagreed... that's OK. I know some people think it's the end of the world but really, it's not.we don't HAVE to agree.Then Benae jumps in and gets really personal and attacks me, I could have been the better person, I should have acted like the better person but I don't much care for the women so we had it out.Benae happens to be gay, this had NOTHING to do with how I feel about her.We used to be friends, I knew she was gay, I never cared about it and when we stopped being friends it was not over her sexuality but over her calling me a racist for stating that the boys involved in the Jena 6 case deserved to be punished.Yup, I sunk to her level and I chewed her a new crack that God didn't grant her at birth.Such is life.Next Moshelle pops in, now I don't like her and she doesn't like me but I attempted to be civil with her though she trys my patience to the umteenth degree simply because her logic isn't logical and I find her annoying.None the less I tried to be civil, that wasn't on her agenda for the day.She had a point to make and even when I could easily disprove her point she just redirected... typical.Some chick comes along and attempts to tell me how unchristian of me it was to go off on Benae yet fails to say a single word about Benae's claimed Christianity and how she came to a blog where people were respectfully debating and got personal.It isn't as if liberals are known for their integrity but my goodness.So I write a tongue in cheek blog about stupid people.It was funny, most of you laughed, I got a good laugh and then Corrine gets butt hurt.I try speaking civilly to her but she's not getting it.Ok, are we all caught up now?Everyone up to date on this crap?Now, for those of you on my friends list you know that Saturday night I took my kids and D out to grab some fast food late at night because dinner was burnt.There in the parking lot a person tried to hit the side of my van with the back of her hummer, scared the crap out of my kids and then she and her sister attacked me. I had the police called, we all have a court date...I was upset.I doubt upset is the word for it but it's close enough for now.I went through my list that night, as I set that blog to friends only, and got rid of anyone I didn't really know.Then I see new comments on the blog I already had going.Corrine, Moshelle and Janie had all posted and I knew I was in NO frame of mind to even attempt to have a civil conversation with these three about some stupid blog BS after I had just been assaulted in front of my kids.I think any logical person could understand this.Logic is lacking on the internet.So I blocked Moshelle and Janie and I took Corrine off my friends list which made it so she wasn't able to read the blogs where I was trying to put my thoughts in order about what I had just dealt with.The block feature for Janie was a time out measure, for Moshelle, I don't talk to her, she doesn't talk to me. She posted to be an insulting brat and I saw no need to further deal with her.Moshelle couldn't back up what she had to say on that subject but damned if she didn't keep posting just to see herself type.Corrine would still be able to read and post on my blogs but just wasn't able to view my extremely personal thoughts about a fairly traumatic ordeal.No big deal right?Not in libby land.*rolls eyes*So I flip through blogs today and see Moshelle has written a blog about me, how original... oh wait, no it's not, it's been done to death.Typically I have to value you as a person to give a crap what you have to say, as such, I didn't care what she had to say, anyone that thinks rape and incest are "normal" simply because animals do it isn't exactly on the same level as me regarding common sense, logic or morality.Here's the kicker though...I see a post from Corrine and since she has her messages set to friends only (and I don't EVER see us being friends again after this) I figured I would just put it out there.In her comment she said things like"It seems I have been blocked by the same person..I find this very disheartening..I pointed out to this writer, that what she was saying directly hurting me. Not to mention she was attacking another who is gay.."First of all Corrine, you weren't blocked.Secondly, you say I was "attacking another who is gay" as if the fact that Benae is gay had ANYTHING to do with me attacking her.As if she had not come out swinging at me when I hadn't said a SINGLE word to her.I guess by your logic I should never say a negative word or react in any manner other than throwing flowers at the feet of a gay person or any minority for that matter.I guess by your logic, since the females that assaulted me happened to be black I should have just allowed them to continue instead of defending myself. |
| I guess by your logic, since the females that assaulted me happened to be black I should have just allowed them to continue instead of defending myself.I'm so sorry, I didn't know I was supposed to judge people based on race, sexuality or creed, I thought I should judge people based on actions but I guess all you see when you look at Benae is a gay woman.I don't, didn't matter to me when she came at me like that.I saw a nasty person that attacked me and deserved to be put in her place.Who she slept with had no barring on the argument.You and I both work in the health care industry.Can you imagine if we felt the same as her?Hmmm What if, I had the same belief as her god, only certain people deserve my care and treatment?You can have surgery, but that gay person can't?Knowing that I want to go into nursing that was a seriously low blow there Corrine.NOTHING I said, Not one single thing would even remotely lead any logical person to believe I would feel that way.I guess I should have listened when people labeled you a liberal nutjob to begin with instead of defending you because the fact is you are as two faced as the rest and it's really friggin repulsive.I'm feeling better already..It really hurt at first.I actually replied to her comment on the "stupid" people blog..She kicked me, you and Janie to the curb..You had absolutely NO REASON to be hurt by the stupid people blog unless you feel you are a stupid person Corrine.I didn't attack you and I didn't "kick you to the curb" I ensured that you couldn't see something that was very personal to me at the moment while I was quite tender because something about the way you were responding lead me to not trust you.These quotes right here prove I was DEAD on with that notion.You are NOT trustworthy, you are NOT a friend.You are two faced, lack logic and are a part of this "we should all make each other feel good and damn right and wrong" mentality that is messing up our entire nation.So, we are NOT friends and we shall never be friends again because some things you can't take back.Point me to one thing I said personally to you to ever take a dig at you or hurt you... you can't.You decided to take something personal from a political debate instead of using logic and common sense.It wasn't intended to hurt you or anyone, I simply stated some facts and some personal opinions but none of it was disrespectful nor hateful toward homosexuals because I don't feel those emotions toward homosexuals.Last but surely not least, Janie... your mother wasn't blocked.As a matter of fact she called and talked to me about the whole thing so there is no way you did NOT know what I was personally dealing with at that moment in time and yet you go to Moshelle's blog and post there and it's all about you.Let me fill you in on something kiddo, somethings go beyond the net.I have a life and every once in a while things go badly for me. When that happens and I have someone on a blog that I KNOW I can not respond to respectfully or calmly due to my own personal baggage of the moment when it's no fault of their own I end the conversation to ensure I do NOT hurt their feelings.You hadn't said anything yet that would have been deserving of me getting nasty with you but I couldn't debate after that night, Iw as too angry and upset with what had happened to me and my family.So I decided not to risk getting nasty and hurting your feelings and just put us on a time out until I could be rational.Not that you respected that in any manner, I don't know that you could.I didn't owe a single one of you an explanation but I figured I would offer it anyway.I am absolutely disgusted that the people claiming how tolerant and compassionate they are are the first to take some low digs, kick a person when they are down and twist someone's words to the point that they no longer even resemble what the person said at all.Where I come from we call that lying.It's is also mind boggling that Corrine and many other liberals feel that a person should be allowed special protections against personal attacks due to race, creed or sexuality and that's all it could come down to because I never brought up Benae's sexuality as a point of contention in anything I said.Since one of you saw fit to have a whine fest about getting blocked and the rest joined in for their own personal pity party I figured I would clear the air and let you know that it's not always about you.Sometimes people just have personal issues to deal with and you just happen to be in the way.I am glad it all went down as it did though.It really clarified who my friends were and it helped me see that the two faced trend I have noticed in so many liberals is not an exception but the rule itself.There are exceptions to that rule, none of you fit into it.So, do me a favor and forget I exist as I will gladly do so regarding you.There are certain things I require from friends and you dropped the ball on this one.As far as Moshelle goes, we were never friends, two type A personalities attempting to debate from such vastly different perspectives is just useless.She has nothing to teach?me and she will never learn.Get it, got it?Goooooood!By the way, stop whining about getting blocked.Grow up! |
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